Love: A Medley of Happiness And Heart-Break

Love, this four letter word is the closest, us humans have to magic. Being in love will make you realize how truly happy one can be and being loved by someone is the best feeling in the world.

Love is when you decide to grow, learn, enjoy and live with a person who not only accepts you completely, but also who believes in you and your ideals.When you love someone, you make that person your world and everything just seems so much better until reality hits back and you face real life problems. 

Love is also when you choose a person over and over, day in and out despite their flaws and appreciating them for who they are. Love is when you get so happy just by thinking about that one person and it makes your day so much better. Love is when ever after having problems and tough times, you never give up on each other and keep trying to support each other and survive those hard days.

Everyone deserves a perfect love story. But in order to find the perfect match for yourself, one has to go through a lot of break-ups and a series of bad relationships. Now, what comes after the break-ups are the feeling of heart-break and in such situations, one should always believe in themselves and be proud of what they are.

Heart-break, the ten letter word has a lot of depth to it. It is one emotional stage that every person (almost) goes through before becoming the independent and strong person in the future. 

Heart-break is more like a phase that involves depression followed by feeling of guilt and sadness. It is that state where one feels helpless and broken just because the other wasn't confident and supportive enough to believe in them. Trust me, heart-break does not only happen when one falls out of love or when one decides to end things for good. It happens when that one person whom you thought would support you, believe in you and most importantly, never give up on you just ends up doing precisely what we expected them not to. 

This stage helps you become so much stronger and will make you realize who your true friends are. Heart-breaks are very difficult to deal with, but in the end, it makes you a better and a much confident person than you were in the past. Heart-breaks will make you feel guilty, unsure about your decisions and will also question whether you tried enough to save the relationship or whether you tried at all. One gets tired after trying to fix something that was not happen to work out in the first place. You might start expecting that everything might go back to normal. But this is a stage of denial where one is not ready to believe that what they had in the past isn't there anymore and those expectations are the worst. They give you hope and you just begin to think about ways in which everything would be perfect again.

I have learnt that mot people fall out of love for the same reasons they fell in it. Their lover's endearing stubbornness has now become refusal to compromise. Their spontaneity now becomes reckless. Nothing saddens and scares me more than the thought that I can become ugly to someone who once thought that all the stars were in my eyes.

Such stages make you feel bad and hurt, especially when someone makes you feel special and suddenly leaves you hanging and you have to pretend like you don't care. I can imagine how hard that must be for anyone. You just show the world how happy and tough you are on the outside while on the inside you are broken and all you can think of, is the good times along with the memories.

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN SO CLOSE TO CRYING BUT YOU SMILE ANYWAYS?

But there is something you have to remember. Fight for something you think has potential and is real. Do not give up on such opportunities. But even after trying hard, if it doesn't feel right or you aren't happy, then it is simply not worth the time and attention. A relationship is only good as far as it keeps both the people happy and confident in both, themselves and each other and if that isn't what is the case after trying so hard, then.